[vadisworld - my way, my world] The One Who Loves You or the OneYou Love...

"The one who Loves you or The one you love..."


This is also for those who are waiting for the person they love to love them back openly, to those who are looking for love and those who know that their love is not meant to be...Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simplybecause we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns by being selfish to find our ideal love that we might never gonna find it. Go for the person of deeds and not for the one of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the one you love but the one whom loves you more.

The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allowthat person to find his own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allowpain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.

Others are lucky to have an actual fairy tale unfold in their lives, when they find that this is the significant other they've long been waiting for...However, for some, the sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feelsnothing more for us than just a friendship...but don't be so bitter about it! For it is a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a LIFETIME!!! We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept theverdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible, and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is comingtomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to,but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has leftwith you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason why it wasposted! People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figureout which one it is, you will know what to do


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Posted By vadis to vadisworld - my way, my world at 2/23/2009 01:52:00 AM